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03 August 2011

"UNDERSTANDING is the BASE of ANY RELATIONSHIP"


When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then.

I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad.

I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed, yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school.

I do not remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite. 

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits and I will never forget what he said.

He smiled at her and said, "Honey, I love burned biscuits."

Later that night, I went to kiss my dad good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned.

He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your mom put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides, a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone."


".Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people."


I am not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else, but what I have learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults, and choosing to celebrate each other's differences, is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing and lasting relationship.

This is my hope for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and have a good relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker.

We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship.


".Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket; keep it in your own."




Understand? Understood? Paham? Mengerti?
Cetry! Cetry!


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HIK! ;)
BABAI!!

4 comments:

  1. yes..indeed..if only the other side think and do it, it will be a lot nicer tho...~

    keep on writing, best ni :)

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  2. fieza zaki: yup, btooii tuh! cweet jew an! Thanx darl! insyALLAH.. bru nak berjinak2 nih..hehe ;)

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  4. fahmie firas: salam perkenalan jugak! ;) Macehh sbb follow! I will follow u back! (^_*)

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